New years are about optimism. "This year will be better. This year will be different. This year will be successful. This will be my best year! Something will change. I will change." Isn't that the way almost every year begins? And yet, it most often turns out just...
The Gift of Pain
“If I held in my hands the power to eliminate physical pain from the world,” said Dr. Paul Brand, “I would not exercise it.” (Paul Brand & Philip Yancey, The Gift of Pain, p. 219). And what qualifies him to say something so sweeping, so comprehensive? Just think...
A Gift That Overcomes the World
This Christmas season, let’s ask God for the gift of faith—that we may grasp the exceeding greatness of His power toward us who believe (Ephesians 1:19). We want to attain everything God has prepared for us—all for His glory. There is literally no end to the substance...
God is Really OUR Father
I'm a father. I've got two boys, one is 20 and the other 13. Due to certain circumstances, I also seem to have two daughters. One is the daughter of my best friend who died in an accident years ago. The other is my half-sister who was born 15 years after me. I kind of...
This is What You Need From Church
Have you ever had the experience of feeling that you are the “odd person out”? You have to attend a professional meeting or something you feel you should attend but would prefer to skip it. But you can’t. You have to attend. Others stand around talking, laughing, and...
Couples Should Be on the Same Page When it Comes to Money
Money matters are a common source of conflict in many marriages. Differing financial goals, family upbringing, spending habits, and financial histories can create tension between spouses. However, by working together, setting clear communication channels, and aligning...
Finding Good Relationships
That may take some work...Let’s face it. Not all relationships between men and women are good. Some are actually painful. Maybe they end badly or are abusive or frustrating. Some people bounce between relationships rapidly with increasing sadness and wounding. Here’s...
From Praises to Miracles
It’s easy to praise God when miracles happen. Yet sometimes miracles have stages, and those stages can be trying. So if you’re having a dark night of the soul, wondering if you did something wrong or if God is with you—here’s a Bible story for you. In John 9:2, Jesus...
Thriving Through the Winter Seasons of Life
Today, 10 October, is World Mental Health Day. I hope this piece may bring encouragement to some. Metaphorically, winter often mirrors life's harshest trials, embodying difficulties, hardships, and moments of despair. It's that time when you might find yourself laid...
The Keys to Trustability
Trustability, the cornerstone of strong relationships and personal growth, is built upon the convergence of three essential elements: Habits, Humility, and Honesty. #1 Habits: The Foundation of Trustability Habits are the actions and routines that shape our daily...