The title of this post is inspired by the book of the same title authored by Pat Robertson, host of one of the longest Christian television program, The 700 Club.

What is the greatest virtue, you may want to ask. Pat’s book says its humility. I definitely agree, but still read the book, this post is not a spoiler or anything.

The reason I am posting this is because when we think we are humble, then we are not. Humility is the opposite of pride which is very subtle and deceitful. Very tricky messing with pride. It WAS the reason for Lucifer’s downfall.  Even if we do not consciously think that we are humble, when put to the test, many fail.

As I did–a couple of nights ago…

I was commuting home and the driver misinterpreted that I would be going down somewhere when I was not. He actually had the decency to place the vehicle in a safe place–more of so that he would not get caught. Well that was not the place i need get off.

So he turned around and started talking about how it was a great nuisance that he had to go this place just to drop me off and I did not tell him otherwise. Well I told I taught he was going the other way. Then he repeated his tirade and I repeated my reason.

Let me backtrack a bit. During the start of our trip he was complaining about so many things. Heavy traffic. Taxis cutting or suddenly stopping in front of him. Everything, as in everything. I already had my  earphones on and I could still hear him babbling on  and on and on like the Energizer bunny.

Ok, back to the story. It got to a point when I started to boil because he would just not stop. Everyone who is awake in the shuttle was probably hearing it. It was embarrassing me to say the least. So, in one swift motion, I blurted out, “Manong didiskusyunin mo ba ako hanggang makababa ako?” (Translation: ” Will you be discusing this to me until I get off?”)

To my surprise he did not stop. Another burst came out, “Reklamo kasi kayo ng reklamo kasi kaya siguro kayo naghihirap e!” (Translation: “You must be always complaining and complaining that is why you are in poverty!”) He got quiet when I said that. I must’ve hit a nerve. I was nearing the point where I need to go down. And for one last payback, I told him, “Dyan lang ako sa tabi, wag nyo akong ilalayo!” (Translation: “You can drop me off now and don’t you dare stop very far!”) My voice was already trembling with the adrenalin rushing through my veins.

As I was on my way down, i could not resists saying just one more blast, “Pag nakita nyo ulit ako wag nyo na akong isasakay ha?” (Translation: “When you see me again, don’t try to make me ride again, ok?”)

Then when I was on my last ride home, everything was coming back to me. I did not treat him as what a true Christian should do. If Jesus was physically there, I could imagine He could have probably disintegrated with the embarrassment that I was associated with Him. But we all know He wont do that. That is called grace.

Instead giving reasons, I should have apologized. I should stayed quiet instead of allowing myself speak hurtful words. I should have been humble. My pride got in the way. I was embarrassed in front of other people. How is a guy supposed to react? Maybe I should rephrase it, “How is a CHRISTIAN supposed to react?” Check out this verse:

Titus 3:2, “They must not slander anyone and must avoid quarreling. Instead, they should be gentle and show true humility to everyone.”

Humility truly is the greatest virtue.

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